Do I have to try mediation before I can sue the HOA?
Sometimes. It depends on your state and on your governing documents. This is not a recommendation that you sue. It is a warning that filing first and asking questions later can waste the filing fee. Some states require a mediation or meet-and-confer step before certain HOA cases can go to court. Skipping a required step can get a case dismissed.
How this usually unfolds
One side sends a written request to mediate or to meet. The other side accepts or, in some statutes, is deemed to have rejected if it stays silent past a deadline. A neutral mediator hosts a conference. Nothing is decided unless both sides agree. If it fails, a lawsuit may still be available — if the statute’s other rules are met. Small claims is sometimes carved out; sometimes it is not.
What actually controls this
State statute first, then the CC&Rs and any written IDR/ADR policy. Labeled examples, not a national rule:
- California’s Davis-Stirling Act: internal dispute resolution (IDR) is a meet-and-confer process. If you request it in writing, the association generally has to participate. Separately, Civil Code 5930 requires alternative dispute resolution — usually mediation — before many enforcement actions that seek an injunction or similar relief, including those paired with money under the small-claims cap.
- Florida Statute 720.311: many Chapter 720 HOA disputes require pre-suit mediation before a court case. Election and recall disputes often go a different route (including limited DBPR arbitration). Condo disputes under Chapter 718 follow a different playbook.
Other states may require nothing. Your CC&Rs might still call for mediation. A contract term is not the same thing as a statute, but courts sometimes enforce it. Check both.
Unpaid assessments can still lead to late fees, collections, a lien, and in some states foreclosure while you wait on a mediation date. Withholding dues during the process is usually a trap.
What to do next
Read the dispute-resolution article of your CC&Rs and your state’s HOA statute. If a letter in your hand already offers IDR or mediation, calendar the response date. Keep paying regular assessments. Save a copy of every request and response.
When this is bigger than DIY
If a deadline to request or attend mediation is running, a lien is recorded, or a hearing involves real money, talk to a lawyer licensed in your state before you skip the step or before you file. Guide does not schedule the mediator or appear with you.
> This is general information from an AI helper, not legal advice. Confirm it against your documents and your state’s law. If a deadline or hearing is coming up, talk to a licensed lawyer.